I Love You?

“I love you”, he said sounding more like a question than a declaration of emotion.

“Do you, love me?’ she asked hearing the hesitation in his voice.

His face was visibly upset.  He was in shock and embarrassment at her question. He expected requited love instead of questions.  He opened his mouth and nothing came out.

“Look”, she explained “we have both been through a lot in our lives. I don’t have time for tentative love.  Just like when I go swimming, I never stick my toes in the pool to test the temperature I jump in.  When I give my heart, I give my whole heart.  When I love you it will be with my whole heart a lot. All Capital letters and an exclamation point.

So . . . do you, love me?”


American Red Cross

In the aftermath of Irma in the Southeast, many people want to help out. Some people can go to the affected areas to provide food, water and help rebuild.  Others want to give money to help with the cause.

The American Red Cross has been the most promoted agency to send donations and also the most controversial regarding the use of the funds. The CEO Gail J. McGovern had an annual salary of $1,037,000.  Charity Navigator and Forbes magazine says the American Red Cross operates at a 92% efficiency rate.

I always find it interesting how people want to create thorny situations and find the worse in a already bad situation. I like the American Red Cross.  I like how they help people.  I feel like they are well established and I think a 92% efficiency rate is great work!!

I am not affiliated with the American Red Cross. Unfortunately, I have had to their work following disaster and it is good.

Food For Thought – Words to Encourage

When I think about inspirational people Mahatma Gandhi often comes to my mind. He was one of those people that lived his life to make life better.  He didn’t just go around saying smart things he lived those things and encouraged others to do the same.  Mr. Gandhi influenced a lot of change all over the world and his quotes are found in songs, memes, pictures, dissertations, speeches and blogs.

If you look for a Gandhi quote, you can get lost in the meaning or wondering what he was thinking or going through when he said the particular thing. It could be food for thought all day.  I like them break it into snack size bites.


My Circle of Life

When I think of the Circle of Life, I am reminded of the Disney movie “The Lion King” how a young cub learns about how life works for animals.

When I think of my current circle of life, I think of my current sickness. One day I feel whole and the next day I feel broken.  One day I am almost pain free and the next day I am in so much pain I want to cry.

It is like spinning a wheel of chance and wondering what will happen when I open my eyes.

What does your current circle of life resemble?

Wheel of Chance

Drawing A Blank

So far, my blogging experience has been a bunch of blank pages.

 I thought I would eloquently relay the events of my day.  I expected to perhaps provide an anecdotal synopsis of my latest misfortune, but it’s been a hard commitment.

 The daily word prompts are a great idea.  I’m just drawing a blank.

Too Flat

I love to sing! I sing everything . . . all the time!!

I sing at work, I sing at home, I sing at church, I sing in my car and I hum when I am in the store (yes, I am one of THOSE people).

Singing makes me sooooo happy.

But . . . I can’t sing. What I mean is I don’t make a sweet sound in anyone’s ear (I often apologize to people sitting in front of me in church once I realize I was really belting out a song).

I have taken voice lessons. I have done all of the exercises suggested in many self-help CDs, but still I’m too flat.

So why would God create me to love music so much and be so happy when I sing?


Her Name Was Jenny Faith

Jenny Faith was the first dog I loved by myself.  The four before her were for my children.

Being blessed with Jenny after suffering temporary empty nest sadness was a blessing!

Jenny Faith was a chillaxed Beagle that loved to take pictures, wear bows, dresses and have her nails painted!  She made it hard to be upset when she tore up my window blinds (she was so happy to see me every day).

Jenny Faith was the best buddy I could have prayed for.  Unfortunately, she took very ill and the vet said she would be better in heaven.  Making the decision to say goodbye was extremely hard.

Jenny Faith was a good girl.  I never thought I would get another buddy, but I eventually I did.  I now have Dolly Paige.  She will never take the place of my Jenny Faith. 


Change Your View

When you look around at where you are in life, if things don’t look too well: you may have had blurred vision. You may have been wearing the wrong glasses. You may have been wearing sunglasses inside. It’s time to change your view and get rid of the blurred and distorted vision.

I know first hand that we don’t have to be a product of our environment or upbringings.

Where we come from and where we been have shaped us into who we are, but we don’t have to stay there.

So if you come from a family of drunks and drug addicts who abuse their children you may be more likely to drink and use drugs and have poor parenting skills. You can change your view. You can purposefully not touch drugs or alcohol. You can be the opposite of your parents. You can hug your babies and protect them.

It’s up to you. What’s your view?

Survival Is For The Strong?

I think the best survivors are those who were weak and didn’t know they had the strength to overcome the problem, obstacles or situation.
The best survivors are the ones who had given up or were backed into a corner.

The best survivors are the ones that felt small like David facing giant Goliath.

Those are the survivors with a story to tell. Their testimony will give hope and encouragement for years.

Their account of survival will give someone else strength.

Best Qualified

I am of a mixed nationality.  At first glance, I may appear to be a minority.  I am often asked to participate on interview panels or award committees.  I would like to think it’s because of my expert knowledge or because of my integrity, but really human relations feels panels and committees are fairer if they are diverse.

 Personally, I would rather the best qualified people for a panel, committee or position.

 I would like to earn a position because I am the best qualified person, not because an employer is trying to fill a diversity quota.

Although I believe racism exists and some things are not fair; I believe some minorities have taken advantage of this.  Whining and complaining about someone else’s behavior instead of being the best they can be has led

Most of the time, I forget I’m different until someone points it out.